Posted in Education, Family, Holidays

Keeping the Faith in The Great Pumpkin

Growing up in a Peanuts-loving household, I have been a lifelong fan of Charlie Brown, Snoopy, and the rest of the gang. My Baby Boomer siblings played a big role in my Generation X fandom. By the time I was born in 1972, they had already built up a vast Peanuts collection of figurines, stuffed toys. puzzles, books, and records. They shared their treasury with me, happy dancing to keep their favorite childhood characters alive. For a good laugh, they would play the  “Snoopy’s Christmas” record  to get me to imitate the Red Baron’s accent saying, “Merry Christmas, my friend.” When my sisters would read Happiness is a Warm Puppy to me, I begged them for one more time. The best was when, after another one-more-time, they acted out the pages, treating me to “a bread and butter sandwich folded over,” “roller skates on a smooth sidewalk,” or “a pile of leaves.”  Happiness is sandwich-making, roller-skating, leaf-raking big sisters.

My parents, born during the early years of the Depression, got hooked as adults on the cheap entertainment of the Peanuts comic strip that debuted in 1950. My father, a hobbyist artist who was an expert at drawing, painting, and woodworking, greatly admired the work of Charles M. Schulz. He celebrated the cartoonist, making Peanuts-themed crafts for friends and family. Our neighborhood yards, porches, and houses were adorned with my father’s lawn ornaments, wall hangings, and welcome signs.

My mother, who adored the decor of my father’s whimsical crafts, was always a kid at heart. She was my greatest influence for reading the funny pages and watching cartoons. Every year, she made certain that we watched: It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown; A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving; and A Charlie Brown Christmas. She treated the animated Peanuts gang like those folks we only got to visit on special occasions.

Like millions of fans, my family revered the tradition of viewing the trifecta of Peanuts holiday specials born from the talents of writer Charles M. Schulz, producer Lee Mendelson, and director Bill Melendez. This trinity of award-winning creatives left a legacy of animated classics that have continued to touch multigenerations for the past six decades.

On October 27th, 2026, It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown turned sixty, and Charlie Brown’s rocks sparkled for a diamond anniversary. This remains my favorite Peanuts holiday special, but ten years ago, I wavered in my faith and doubted my loyalty to it. Before revealing that rocky struggle, I invite you to journey back to an era when there were no pause buttons, no videos to rewind, no streaming services, back when I had to patiently wait for The Great Pumpkin to air.

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It’s 1977, and I am marching with my mother and kindergarten classmates in the Monaca Halloween parade. After the final firetruck floods Main Street with Tootsie Rolls, Gobstoppers, and Bazooka Bubblegum, we line up at the fire department for the Monaca costume contest. I am awarded second place and a rare bicentennial silver dollar for my hand-sewn fuzzy black and pink cat costume.

My excitement gets snatched when first place goes to Duane, the cowboy from Rochester. The cowboy who rode his hobby horse into our town. The cowboy who came across the Monaca-Rochester Bridge and stole first place. Even though his rusty-colored hat and vest bring out his adorable freckles, he should hand over his crisp two-dollar bill to me. Like Sally in the pumpkin patch, I feel robbed, but before I can make a case for restitution to the hometown judges, my mother reminds me that Charlie Brown would air in twenty minutes.

We are six blocks away from our three-channel television set and have no time for a showdown. I make a quick complaint to my classmate Davy, who is my Sweet Babboo and dressed as the sheriff, to turn in his cousin Duane for violating local contest rules.

“Giddy up!” my mother says. She and I gallop and giggle the whole way home until we get to our porch steps. Mrs. Douglas, taking her evening stroll, tries to stop us. Mrs. Douglas, our garrulous neighbor who doesn’t own a TV, will keep chit-chatting about Jimmy Carter, the Yankees, and the home run streak of Reggie Jackson (aka Mr. October). My mother, friendly to the entire neighborhood, has to snub Mrs. Douglas this evening. She pulls me by the tail up to the porch, digs into my candy bucket, and tosses Mrs. Douglas a full-size Hershey’s Bar.

“Hey, that’s my favorite,” I say.

“Scat. It has almonds,” she says as she pushes us inside.

I run past the kitchen where my father is making us popcorn in the stainless steel popper. I shed my second-place costume for footie pajamas and grab my Snoopy and Woodstock stuffed animals. I slide my beanbag in front of our color television set and empty my bag of parade goodies on a metal TV tray.

My sister, the one who still lives here, just ended her shift at McDonald’s. She makes it home in time to start the show with us. Rushing in, she sits next to me on the living room floor. She gives me a box of McDonaldland Cookies. Score! I got two Grimaces!

My father hands my sister and me recycled Parkay containers full of popcorn with extra flavor that says butter. My mother comes in and switches on the lamp that shows off the jack-o-lantern suncatcher my father taught me to paint. Its colors burst despite the plastic covering the lampshade.

My mother helps herself to my chocolate pile and plucks a Reese’s Cup, her favorite, and a Three Musketeers for my father. My sister snags a package of M&M’s and mixes it with her popcorn. We are all set for the show until the color goes out during an Almond Joy-Mounds commercial.

I scream, “Black and white.”

The candybar lady sings, “Sometimes you feel like a nut.”

“Black and white!”

“Sometimes you don’t.”

My mother leaps to the rescue and gives the top of the TV three whacks. She has the magic touch to bring back the brown shades of “Almond Joy’s got nuts. Mounds don’t.”

Phew! Just in time for the CBS bumper that means Charlie Brown is coming on. You know the one, the rainbow-colored animation of the word “SPECIAL” spiraling towards us to the rapid beats of bongos and blares of horns.

It’s our annual broadcast invitation to:

A

CBS

SPECIAL

PRESENTATION

It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown

Brought to you by the people in your town

who bottle Coca-Cola and the folks who bake Dolly Madison cakes.

We stick to our seats like Bit-O-Honey does to our teeth and watch Snoopy and these beloved balloon-headed kids celebrate and falter through Halloween.

My mother would never let me carve a pumpkin or cut up one of her sheets. Charlie Brown’s ghost looks more like a spotted dalmatian. He must keep getting rocks for having the worst costume. Good thing my cat costume is a prize winner. That cowboy, Duncan, deserves rocks for cheating the system.

I couldn’t believe Violet drew on the back of Charlie Brown’s head, but, maybe next year, he should trick-or-treat as a jack-o-lantern. I wonder if the marker is permanent.

The funniest part is when Lucy’s big mouth bobs for apples, and she gets the one attached to Snoopy’s big grin and dog lips. Blah!

Although there’s a lot to laugh about, I feel bad for Linus. He waits every year, but the only thing to rise from the pumpkin patch is Snoopy dressed up as a World War I Flying Ace. Now that costume deserves a two-dollar bill.

Georgie Sees the WWI Flying Ace

Even though I’m disappointed, like Linus, I’ll be back next year with renewed hope for a different ending where we don’t have to ask, “Oh, Great Pumpkin, where are you?”

TO BE CONTINUED

Posted in Holidays, Inspiration, Shopping

A Christmas Miracle in the Meadville Liquor Store

This happened six years ago and the epiphany to slow down, share more, and give thanks continues to grow inside. Wishing you a miraculous Christmas filled with peace, love, and joy. 

‘Twas the afternoon before Christmas, and I had last-minute shopping for the upcoming holidays. On the brink of losing my jingle, I chose to go to the Meadville downtown plaza.

Although rundown and outdated, I wanted to avoid the crowds of the more popular venues. In the end, I still had to go to three different stores for my simple list: gift tags, wax paper, and wine.

First stop, Dollar General. I didn’t think I needed a cart, but the festive Christmas aisle caused me to abandon my list. I ended up loading my arms with tinsel, wrapping paper, dancing snowmen, and gift tags and bags. I looked for a replacement for our silver star tree topper that our dog destroyed.

I had a choice between an angel with a face more clownish than angelic or deer antlers dipped in glitter. Our tree would have to remain topless.

I nearly forgot the wax paper for the peanut butter balls still needing balled and dipped. I scanned rows and rows of aluminum foil, plastic wrap, and parchment paper. No wax paper. No silver star. It sure was hard to shop for Christmas at Dollar General. I imagined I could make an aluminum foil tree topper, and then my cell phone rang, jarring me out of my momentary ambition to start crafting.

I fumbled to pluck my phone from my purse and dropped half of what wasn’t even on my list. My husband called asking me to get whipping cream for the eggnog. Even though I needed a grocery store for the wax paper, I confess my irritation because whipping cream was just one more thing for me to forget or drop.

I picked up my dancing duet of snowmen, shoving them under my arm. I accidentally hit their on-switch and they shook and belted out their rendition of “Silver Bells” from my armpit. Who knew they could sing too? I abandoned the wrapping paper that rolled way too far under a shelf. Gift bags would have to do.

I gave up shopping and stood in the pay line stressing about my unchecked boxes: I still needed to bake and clean and find my winter-scented candles. I was burning pumpkin spice, a fragrance faux pas in December. What kind of party would it be without the aroma of artificial pine next to my artificial trees?

Dear Santa, I would like an elf.

Just then I noticed two chatty women in front of me wearing elf hats atop their snowy white hair. Although they were cute as lil’ elf buttons, they were not actual elves. I could tell by the fake ears stitched on their hats. I found the non-North Pole friends more interesting than my checklist and couldn’t help but eavesdrop.

I leaned my non-elfish ear closer and heard Elf One remark, “I almost spent a hundred dollars in here. Thankfully, I had enough for each of the grandkids’ and cats’ gifts.”

Elf Two ignored her and kept staring at the young man in the opposite line. Pointing him out to her friend, she said, “Look there. That’s Joey.” She whispered loud enough for me to make out that it was her estranged adult grandson.“I know that pointy chin anywhere.” He held a giant candy cane dog bone, a fiber optic tree, and a picture frame. He failed to look her way though.

I just wanted to tell Elf Two to speak up, wave, or hang her hat on his pointy chin and tell him she was there. Instead, she screamed silence, and Joey left without acknowledging his grandmother whose picture would most likely not be filling his frame.

It was my turn, and I emptied my arms on the counter. The cashier had a fun name, Timon, and a smile as wide as the meerkat character from The Lion King.

This Timon was also tall, slender, and caramel colored. He made friendly small talk about the holidays and asked the usual, “Are you ready for Christmas?”

I shrugged my shoulders and answered, “I’m a bit behind, but that’s nothing new for me. How about you?”

He smiled a grin of a 101 pearls, and said, “Yeah, me too. I told my kids it’s no biggie to wait a couple extra days to get their presents. Prices will be slashed then, you know?”

I wanted to tell him how much I understood because I am Serbian Orthodox and observe The Nativity on January 7th. We celebrate with my husband’s family on December 25th. Timon, not a Serb, couldn’t afford gifts until the post-holiday sales.He was upbeat about it though. Hakuna Matata, no worries.

And there I was stressed about having a bare naked tree top. I wasn’t about to tell him that I celebrate two Christmases, with two family feasts, two gift exchanges, two trees…

I raced out of the dollar store with my Coach purse and Hunter boots not worrying about paying for Christmas but embarrassed that I could still be frazzled about all the stuff I just had to do to prepare. Instead, Timon would smile and give his family love, safety, and shelter first and gifts later, when it was less burdensome.

I was relieved to escape into the brewing blizzard and jump into my reliable, warm SUV that I remotely started from inside the store. So many people downtown don’t even own a car, let alone an automatic starter. People pushed strollers, pulled sleds, and rode bikes in all types of Northwestern Pennsylvania weather, not for fun but out of necessity.

Next stop, Tops Friendly Market, the closest grocery. I sped through the aisles for wax paper and whipping cream, and paid with cash, which I rarely carry. Behind me I noticed a petite elderly lady with a purple floral arrangement. The petals were bedazzled in silver and gold glitter and arranged in a festive winter pot. She also had a gallon of whole milk.

The little lady quietly asked how much the flower was, and the cashier told her it was $5.97. She slowly swayed her head back and forth. The cashier asked if she still wanted it and she shrugged, then nodded yes, and opened her checkbook. She wrote “Georgie” in the memo. I could tell it was a hardship.

I got my change and was all set to go, but something stopped me from leaving Tops, check-out-line seven. I lingered to hear the golden gal’s final total, like one watching the Pennsylvania Daily Lottery. I kept looking back at her, like a nosy stranger.

The cashier told her the total: $9.51 Yes! I needed a number under ten and had enough. Before she stained the ink to the check, I handed the cashier the rest of my cash, a ten-dollar bill, and murmured, “This is for her things.”

The cashier looked as if he didn’t know what to do with it. I sensed my lengthy presence was making the flower lady uncomfortable. I lowered my head, and muttered, “Please use this for her items.” I didn’t want her to thank me or refuse the gift, so I sprinted out of Tops.

I can’t explain it, but I felt ashamed. It was Christmas, and all I could do was give up a ten-dollar bill? Yes, because I love to shop and buy things… things that clutter my closets, cupboards, and counters. Things that waste my time to purchase and then return. Things that cost more than our middle-class salary covers.

At the time, I needed to escape the overwhelming empathy that I didn’t want to confront. I did not want to see the less fortunate, the lonely, or the underdog while haphazardly tying up my selfish Christmas bows. But there it was, in big red and green bulbs scorching my heart at the downtown mall.

My brain ached and I hoped my last stop to Meadville Wine and Spirits would leave my heart alone. I picked out some wine, and when I saw Bacardi rum on sale, I grabbed a shopping cart and filled it with various bottles for the holiday season.

When I went to pay the sweet, raspy-voiced cashier named Rita informed me that I qualified for a coupon. She tore it off her stack, scanned it, and announced, “There you go. You just saved ten dollars!”

“How much?” I incredulously asked.

“Ten dollars.”

I had to swallow hard past what felt like a lump of coal in my throat. “I just paid ten dollars for a lady’s sparkle flower and milk at Tops.”

She shook her head with glistening eyes and said, “Isn’t it funny how the world works out like that?”

At that moment, both Rita and I felt the grace of the Lord, the reason for the season. I asked what the coupon was for, and she explained that, for a limited time only, there was an automatic ten dollars off the purchase of two bottles of Bacardi.

“This is more than limited-time-only discounted rum.” I turned to the customer behind me and exclaimed, “It’s a miracle! A miracle in the Meadville liquor store!”

The customer looked at me like I’d already tipped the bottle, but in the context of that past hour, my sobering perception of humanity and my place in it evolved.

Rita reaffirmed, “It sure is somethin’ how the world works like that. Merry Christmas! Can I help you out to your car with all this?”

I clasped the hand of my liquor store angel and said, “No thanks. You helped me enough, Rita. Merry Christmas!”

At that heart-glowing moment, I felt as strong as the Grinch when he lifted the Christmas he stole above his head.

With my box of booze, I walked out of the liquor store feeling lighter, energized, and blessed. I looked above and said, “Thank you!”

I drove away, sobbing, hot tears melting my emotional icicles. It was a strange cry, released with sadness for the needy, gratitude to have all I need, and faithful that I was given a special reminder to selflessly give, without expectations. I crossed myself over and over. Suddenly, I sweat and the hot devil inside my soul burned to get out. I needed a baptism of snowflakes, so I opened the sunroof, riding with the pure relief of the heavenly winter.

When I got home, I hugged my husband and said, “Thank you for requesting whipping cream! It led to a great epiphany. I’m so grateful right now for everything.”

“Oh yeah? Did they have free mulled wine samples again?” He winked.

“No taste testing today. Anyhow, to make a long story short, I went to three different stores in the downtown plaza.”

“Were there ghosts in those old shops?” he asked.

“Ghosts?”

“Yeah! Like in Scrooge. Did you visit three different stores with ghosts?”

“No, no. That’s not even how Scrooge goes.” Then I thought that maybe my Christmas Eve afternoon was a little Dickenish in how I was shown the gift of giving when I was a bit Scroogey.

How much better it is to be present and say hello to a forgotten grandma. High-five the upbeat cashier. Pay-it-forward with flowers and milk. Share the bonus of a coupon.

“No Scrooge ghosts? Good. So what’s in the liquor store box?”

“A miracle. God bless us, every one!”

Posted in Holidays, Inspiration, Spirtuality

Grateful. Thankful. Blessed.

This Thanksgiving season, I’ve been pondering what these three words printed on fall decor, clothing, and household signs mean together: Grateful, Thankful, Blessed. 

At first, I thought they were merely synonymous and interchangeable, redundant to read on ceramic pumpkins, sweatshirts, and wall hangings. They all convey a sense of appreciation, but with further consideration, I can now see how they vary. Here is my take on these manifestations of contentment.

Thankful is a feeling, a sudden recognition of relief and/or satisfaction. Feelings come in a moment, affecting us inside such as when we are happy, sad, thankful, bored, or excited. Feelings are fleeting and fly away like birds who’ve emptied the feeder. After the feeler has felt, and the moment has passed, a new feeling can replace the old one.

But if the feeler keeps feeling and dwells on a pain or perpetuates a pleasure, the feeling can fester or grow into a state of being. Feelings that are habitually harbored or entertained can turn into personality traits. For instance, if someone continues to sprout and protect her happy feathers she may be deemed as a cheerful, optimistic, upbeat bird. Those who stay cloaked in sadness can become morose, pessimistic, or depressed mourning doves; they could benefit by flying around with a flock of cheer. One who constantly masks his true feelings and hides his head in the ground like an ostrich might be shy or insecure.

Someone who continues to sincerely give thanks for things, great and small, becomes grateful, a giving personality trait. Gratefulness grows into gratitude which is an attitude. Being grateful is an active characteristic of someone whose cornucopia overflows and she knows it; this simply means she has more than enough, she is thankfully aware, and shares her plentiful goodness with others.

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Gifts of gratitude don’t have to be monetary or charitable gifts, but they can be. Grateful people are generous beyond dollars, offering time, attention, praise, kindness, laughter and prayers. Hence, they show their appreciation for others. The concept of pay it forward can be read on their palms, their open, helping hands.

One who receives another’s gratitude gifts might be thankful or indifferent. Again, those who build a routine of thanks grow into being grateful. Those who fail to thank become entitled. The grateful have accumulated enough thankful feelings to earn this upgraded appreciation reward.  

The last term I’ll attempt to define is: blessed. Being blessed is a spiritual gift granted to the saints, sinners, faithful, and non-believers.  Every one of us is blessed whether we know it or not. For instance, we’re all blessed with creativity.

In the context of this post, being blessed is to be in a precise moment or position where God’s works are revealed and acknowledged. A gathering around the table for a special meal. Thank you. Those ten deer running past while walking to the path instead of driving to it. Thank you. Looking at old photos with the elderly when they were younger. Thank you. An unexpected card or text when feeling alone or forgotten. Thank you. The burden lifted when seeing that person you finally forgave. Thank you.

Blessings, like feelings, are fleeting and will come and go, so it’s worth counting them. I admit to being impatient and when praying to God, I want to be heard, helped, and healed immediately. While He has all the time in the world, I don’t. I crave a quick drive-thru service of supreme blessings: I’ll take a supersized combo of mercy, with extra joy, a side of humility and a peace pie. Make that two peace pies.

God is not a fast-food worker though. He bestows blessings on me in his infinite time when they serve His purpose for my part in it all, the mystery in which He is both the author and omniscient narrator.

I have faith that this good, all-knowing God has a better plan than I do, so I continue to clasp my hands together to give thanks as much as I can every single day. The more thanks I give, the more daily miracles I find. Blessed revelations just pop out when I least expect them, and like Louis Armstrong, I think to myself what a wonderful world.

Blessings are present tense bridges between this world to the spiritual one where we’ve been invited to spend eternity. Earthly blessings are temporal. Heavenly ones last forever.

Paying attention is the key to finding those double rainbows on a rainy day. I used to rush through time so quickly that I missed meaningful moments, the oridindary ones that become monumental. Slowing down has helped me savor time. 

Thankfulness and gratitude lead to a treasure map of blessings, a foretaste of thy kingdom come. You can’t buy blessings, but you can find them with an open mind, positive attitude, and faithful guide. I am thankful to be on this journey in which I hope to be more actively grateful. I am blessed in more ways than I even know. I pray to be more present and aware.

I hope to seed, nurture, and grow a gratitude garden. I’m no gardener and could serve life in green-thumb-prison for all the plants I’ve neglected, dehydrated, and ultimately killed, but I will give it my best shot to sprout some blessed blooms that I can share with you.  

Shine on and enjoy the trinity of being grateful, thankful, and blessed.